I'm Still OK
When I took this (blurry, 8 megapixel, digital camera- fancy!) picture in the middle of Times Square 13 years ago, I thought I could have you told exactly how my life would look in my 30s. I'd probably be coming up on close to a decade of being married. I'd be finished having my 2 or 3 kids, and I'd be married to someone that I'd met towards the end of college. Here I am, 5 years into my 30s, and none of those things have happened, nor are they even close to happening. You know what though... I'm totally fine with it. When I was 28 I wrote a post called "I'm single. It's ok." and 7 years later, it's still true. I spent about a year and a half during my twenties hanging out with (and probably in love with) this guy who was never going to reciprocate. Oh sure, we talked about how all that time spent together made me feel, and he said he didn't mean to lead me on, and it stopped... for about a month. Then, when it picked back up again, and h
